TIME TO SPEAK UP FOR OUR CHILDREN!

HI,



FIRST OF ALL LET ME INTODUCE YOU ALL TO MAWAS CS ENFORCEMENT. "MOTHERS AT WAR AGAINST STATE CHILD SUPPORT ENFORCEMENT "



I HAVE DEALT WITH THE STATE CHILD SUPPORT OFFICE IN THREE STATES AND HAVE GOTTEN THE SAME RESULTS "NONE" AS A VERY YOUNG MOTHER WITH TWO CHILDREN, WITH VERY LITTLE MONEY, NONE FOR AN ATTORNEY FOR SURE. I DEPENDED ON THESE PEOPLE WHO TOOK MY $25.00 AND PROMISED TO DO ALL THESE WONDERFUL THINGS TO HELP MY CHILDREN GET THE SUPPORT THAT THEY DESERVED AND WERE DUE . I GUESS THE TERM "YOU GET WHAT YOU PAY FOR " IS TRUE! I NEVER THOUGHT THAT THIS SERVICE WOULD ACTUALLY BE A CURSE TO ME IN THE LONG RUN, BUT IT HAS BEEN JUST THAT! THEY NEVER ACTUALLY WORKED TO HELP MY CHILD, THEY HELPED THE FATHER... THEY REDUCED CS... NEVER WENT AFTER ASSETS SUCH AS BANK ACCTS AND PROPERTY ..ETC...THEY DO NOT ENFORCE THE STATES LAWS IF THEY EVER DO GET AROUND TO TAKING THE DAD BACK TO COURT. SOME MAY HAVE GOTTEN A POSITIVE RESULT FROM CS ENFORCEMENT AND I AM GLAD FOR THEM, BUT MY EXPERIENCE WAS NOT GOOD, AND MOST PEOPLE THAT I HAVE TALKED TO HAS SAID THE SAME THING. IF YOU GET AN ORDER FROM THE JUDGE AFTER YOUR DIVORCE MAKE SURE IT IS WHAT YOU WANT AND ENFORCE THAT, BUT USING CS ENFORCEMENT CAN REALLY HURT YOU IN THE LONG RUN.... IT SEEMS EASIER AS FAR AS LETTING THEM HANDLE IT SO YOU DON'T HAVE TO KEEP UP WITH DATES PAID AND ARREARS, BUT WHO DO YOU TRUST, YOU OR THEM?



I STRUGGLED DAY AND NIGHT TO MAKE ENDS MEET.. I WENT TO SCHOOL, WORKED 2 JOBS AND TOOK CARE OF TWO KIDS WITH DADS THAT CONTINUED TO PROSPER LAVISHLY. CS ENFORCEMENT DID NOTHING THEY SAID THEY WOULD DO TO HELP.. UNTIL YRS LATER THEY DID TAKE MY EX'S TAX REFUND FOR A FEW YRS. BUT THAT WAS TO PAY BACK THE STATE FROM WHAT THEY HAD PAID ME FOR A PERIOD OF THREE YRS.... AFTER THAT THEY QUIT INTERCEPTING.WHY STOP NOW THAT IT'S MY TURN TO GET IT , THERE IS STILL ARREARS ? THEY BOTH CONTINUE TO HOLD DRIVERS LICENSE, FISHING, HUNTING... PASSPORTS... HOUSES, LAND, BOATS, TRUCKS, CARS, POOLS, MONEY AND BUSINESSES... WHEN I REPORT SOMETHING TO CS THEY NEVER INVESTIGATE IT... I CALL AND GET "NOTHING" I HAVE DEALT WITH THEM FOR 20 YRS. AND NOTHING HAS CHANGED. EVEN THOUGH MOST OF THE EMPLOYEES I HAVE DEALT WITH ARE WOMEN THEY OBVIOUSLY HAVE NEVER EXPERIENCED THIS FIRST HAND... POWER FOLLOWS PASSION AND I THINK WE NEED MORE PASSIONATE PEOPLE HANDLING THESE FATHERS THAT DO NOT PAY! PEOPLE THAT HAVE ACTUALLY BEEN THROUGH IT!



THE STATES NEED TO UPHOLD THEIR LAWS THAT THEY HAVE PUT IN PLACE. A DOG HAS MORE RIGHTS THAT "STICK" THAN A CHILD... HOW SAD IS THAT. I HAVE SEEN THE MEDIA MAKE A BIGGER ISSUE ON HOW A DOG DOESN'T GET FED AND THE TREMENDEOUS ABUSE THAT HAS COME UPON HIM , BUT NEVER A CHILD!!! WHERE ARE OUR PRIORITIES???? WE CAN KILL A BABY AND GET AWAY WITH IT, BUT GO TO JAIL FOR KILLING A DOG.... COME ON!!!!!!!!! A DOG AND A CHILD HAVE TWO THINGS IN COMMON... NEITHER ONE HAVE A VOICE BUT WHICH ONE IS MORE IMPORTANT HERE? I THINK IT IS TIME FOR EVER MOTHER TO STAND UP, JOIN TOGETHER AND GET IN OUR STATE'S FACE , NOT JUST INDIVIDUALLY , BUT ALL AT ONCE, SO WE CAN ALL BE A WITNESS FOR EACH OTHER AT WHAT THEY DO NOT DO! IF WE ALL COME TOGETHER TO THE STATE OFFICES ABOVE OUR COUNTY OFFICES {IF YOU'RE OUTSIDE YOUR STATE'S CAPITAL}AND MAKE IT KNOWN WHATS GOING ON OR WHATS NOT TAKING PLACE, THEN I THINK WE WILL SEE SOME CHANGES! DOCUMENTATION GOES A LONG WAY. IT IS TIME CONSUMING, BUT HEY IF IT HELPS YOU IN THE LONG RUN WHAT HAVE YOU GOT TO LOSE? NAMES SPOKEN TO, TIMES, DATES, EVERYTHING SAID THAT IS SIGNIFICANT... SAVE ALL MAIL FROM THEM AS WELL... KEEP A FOLDER OR I SHOULD SAY A FILE BOX !!



WE PAY THEIR SALARIES AND GIVE THEM A $25.00 "HOPE" GRANT ON TOP OF THAT. JUST TO HAVE THEM GET OUR "HOPES" UP AND NOT COME THROUGH. I DO NOT THINK THEY SHOULD ALLOW ABSENT PARENTS TO HIRE A LAWYER TO COME IN AND COME AGAINST THE CS ATTORNEYS AND THE CHILD THAT IS DEPRIVED OF SUPPORT AND DIMINISH THE STATES LAWS.... HOW CAN THEY AFFORD THAT ANYWAY IF THEY CAN'T PAY CS ?? I HAVE SEEN MY EX PAY THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS IN ATTORNEY FEES TO KEEP FROM PAYING 400.00 PER MONTH IN CS BECAUSE HE THINKS "I" AM GETTING IT... CAN CS ENFORCEMENT NOT SEE THAT? MY STATES LAW SAYS THEY CAN TAKE A PARENTS LIFESTYLE IN CONSIDERATION WHEN IT COMES TO DETERMINING A CS ORDER... HOW COME THEY FORGET THAT LAW WHEN THEY GET IN COURT ALONG WITH ALL THE OTHERS THEY PROMISE TO UPHOLD????



MY CHILDREN ARE GROWN NOW AND I FEEL FOR ALL THE MOTHERS OUT THERE THAT STRUGGLE AND MAKE DAILY SACRIFICES FOR THERE CHILDREN. I INTEND ON UNITING WITH YOU TO GO TO OUR GOVENORS, US ATTORNEY GENERAL, COMMISIONERS, STATE SENATE, AND THE PRESIDENT.. TO FIGHT FOR OUR CHILDREN...DOGS HAVE ADVOCATES, AND THEY GET RESULTS, SO WHY CAN'T OUR CHILDREN THAT CAN'T GET CHILD SUPPORT? OUR CHILDREN ARE GROWING UP TO BE WHAT WE TEACH THEM TO DO..... LETS TEACH THEM THAT PAYING WHAT YOU OWE IS WHATS RIGHT, NOT ROBBING A BANK AND GETTING AWAY WITH IT! WE WANT TO PROSECUTE THEM WHEN THEY GET TO BE AN ADULT IF THEY ROB A BANK, BUT GUESS WHO TAUGHT THEM TO ? "DADS AND JUDGES" KIDS NEED TO FEEL PROTECTED, SAFE AND LOVED BY PEOPLE WHO MATTER AND CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE AND ACTUALLY HAVE THEIR BEST INTEREST AT HEART... NOT WHO HAS THE MOST MONEY AND CAN BUY THERE WAY OUT!!!!!!! GOD SEES ALL AND YOU CAN TAKE HIM OUT OF SCHOOLS, COURTS, AND POLITICS, BUT LOOK WHO GETS THE BLAME! FOR THE CHILDRENS SAKE... STAND AND VOICE YOUR OPINION!



IF YOU ARE OUT THERE AND HAVE CONCERNS PLEASE JOIN IN... I HAVE SO MANY PEOPLE THAT TELL ME THE SAME STORIES, SO WE CAN'T ALL BE LIARS???



CS ENFORCEMENT, QUIT PROMISING ALL THESE THINGS THAT YOU DON'T DELIVER... AND IF YOU WORK THERE JUST FOR A PAY CHECK, GET OUT OF THE BUSINESS!!!! IF YOU ARE IN CHARGE OF HIRING THESE WORKERS.. HOW ABOUT GETTING SOME WOMEN IN THERE THAT CARE!!! WHAT IS THE CRITERIA ANYWAY?? TO BE A DOG ADVOCATE, I THINK YOU HAVE HAD TO OWN A DOG AT SOME POINT AND REALLY CARE ABOUT THEIR WELL BEING AND BE WILLING TO GO TO WHATEVER LENGHTS JUST TO GET THE ABUSER PROSECUTED!



VERY SOON THERE WILL BE PETITIONS FOR EVERY STATE YOU CAN SIGN IF YOU HAVE A PROBLEM AND UNRESOLVED ISSUES.. THAT WILL GET READ!!! TSHIRTS WILL BE AVAILABLE AS WELL, THAT WE CAN WEAR THEM WHEN WE ALL GET TOGETHER AND PROTEST... HEY WHY NOT, THE DOG ADVOCATES DO!!!!!!!!!!



I DO LOVE DOGS, BUT I LOVE OUR CHILDREN MORE. THEY ARE OUR FUTURE! COME ON ALL YOU MOMS OUT THERE SPEAK UP NOW OR FOREVER HOLD YOUR PEACE!!!



LETS MAKE THEM DO FOR OUR CHILDREN WHAT THEY SAY THEY WILL DO!!!! THE BIBLE SAYS “THOU SHALT NOT STEAL” WHAT PART OF THAT DON’T PEOPLE GET… YES, THAT GOES FOR STEALING FROM YOUR OWN CHILD TOO !!!!!